Tuesday, 31 March 2015

इन्तेहा 

कुछ वक़्त की कमी, कुछ बदलते ज़माने की दुशवारियाँ,
बेख़बर सी बेरहम सी पल-पल बढ़ती गयी दूरियाँ,
और फ़िर कुछ यूँ हुई हमारी बेसब्री की इन्तेहा,
कि न तो हम रहे, और ना ही उनके कदमों के निशाँ।

Hypocrisy........Mediocrity.......Exhibitionism

#MyChoice video featuring Deepika Padukone....enough already said on multiple media channels, twitter and FB pages, so I wouldn't waste time and energy repeating the same arguments berating the 'my choice' to wear whatever, go wherever whenever, get intimate with whosoever; even outside marriage if you so desire.
One reminder to all such women: A very large number of men are loving and caring family oriented brothers, fathers and husbands who come home straight from their workplace, don't romp around semi-clad, or ogle at every passing female.
How would you react if men in your family started saying 'my choice' to wear whatever, go wherever whenever, get intimate with whosoever, even outside marriage if they so desire?
Who would care for the family, children and the household if both go their own way? Or do you not care to have a family at all?
Remember: You (both men and women) are because your mother chose to have you.
Assertion of your feminity should not make you disregard the gift of nurturing a life within you....it should be cherished because it is what makes you a woman, and naturally accords you a status higher than men.
Ok. You are within your right to choose. But do you honestly need to flaunt your hot bod, cavort on the beach all night or indulge in promiscuity to assert your equality?
Is your feminity so insecure that you have to make it a fight between 'them' and 'us' to establish itself, not a fight against hunger, disease, illiteracy? Or is that too mainstream, too below your dignity to fight for, for your elitist self?
And lastly, why should your assertion of 'my choice' influence other women's-even a five/ten/fifteen year old girl's right of 'my choice'?

Wednesday, 25 March 2015

HOMECOMING
'Baba', the handsome strapping young man bent down to hold the old man's chapped hands.
'Kaun ho, beta (who are you, son)?' the shabbily dressed man with a scraggly beard and salt and pepper hair asked in a feeble, trembling squeak from his rickety bed.
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Roshan Ali had found a petrified young boy bleeding severely from the head. Sammy had been hiding in the shrub outside Roshan Ali's decrepit one-room tenement. Ali comforted the boy with his kind soothing words and helped him get to his feet. He took the limping boy to his house, cleaned and bandaged his wound and then offered him a glass of milk with a pinch of turmeric.
The boy relaxed gradually and confided in the fatherly man. He belonged to a village in Uttar Pradesh. It was the usual story of a life of penury, of an alcoholic father deserting his wife and four young children, mother struggling to fend for her children and falling ill, the eldest son-a twelve year old-beginning work in a dhaba.
A decent looking man lured Sammy to this city with the promise of better work, better wages and an opportunity to study in a night school.
But the big city pounced upon the hapless child to swallow him in its big bad underbelly.
Pickpocketing, thuk thuk gang, thefts, begging....this was an organized gang which operated like a well oiled smooth machine.
Sammy was threatened, beaten blue and black, starved but he refused to comply with the gangsters' orders. In severe pain, he fell on the ground, unconscious. They kicked at the inert boy, but when the boy failed to respond they panicked. They picked up the badly wounded boy and dumped him in a dense shrub.
Despite coming to his senses, Sammy had not dared to come out for a few hours losing more blood in the meanwhile. In the dead of night, Roshan Ali had heard the groans of the boy and rescued him.
The compassionate and caring man sheltered the weak, frail and terrified boy in his house for a few days, then escorted him to his village. Unfortunately, the boy's mother had vanished from the village with his other siblings without any trace.
Roshan Ali who worked as a driver for a corporate hotshot, was a man of limited financial means yet he decided to not leave the young boy to rot in the village like an orphan. He brought him back to his house and took him to a nearby govt school for admission. Without valid legal documents, the school authorities refused to admit the boy. His boss, an amiable philanthropist, was quite perturbed by the young child's miserable tale and promised to find some recourse soon.
Unfortunately, Roshan Ali had a car accident in his disturbed and anxious state of mind and was sentenced to six months in jail. But to his relief, his kindhearted boss took the distraught child legally under his care and flew him abroad on his next assignment.
That was the last Roshan Ali saw or heard of Sammy. Ten years ago.
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''Baba, main aapka Sammy (I am your Sammy)! I have come home.... to you. Naresh uncle, my guardian angel, took very good care of me and it is because of his perseverance and your blessings that I was able to study well and get a good job here in India only. We will now stay together, in our house."